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A Response to Lisa Boucher

· Lisa Boucher just wrote a scathing piece in which she attempted to defend the program of Alcoholics Anonymous against a growing contingent of sober people who believe the AA program is not only ineffective for many, but also dangerous. Here is my response to Lisa. ·

Dear Lisa, Oh boy. Where do I begin? I’m writing in response to your recent blog post entitled, “When You’re Done Bashing Alcoholics Anonymous – it May be the Thing that Saves Your Life.” Your post was well-written and thorough and it was a powerful retort to the ever-growing and increasingly vocal contingent comprised of…

My Attempt at an Honest Holiday Letter

· Happy holidays family and friends! Here's a short holiday greeting from me to you ·

Dearest family and friends, Happy holidays! What a crazy year it has been in the Okulski – Laitos household! Life has been so hectic that, unfortunately, I just haven’t had time to put out the usual holiday card this year.  Just kidding. Obviously, I don’t really have the adulting skills to do the Christmas letter…

My Life, the Shit Show

· Need to feel better about yourself today? I'm here to help. ·

How to be Called a C*NT on Nextdoor.com, Part 2: Winning

[This is part II of a two-part series where I relay my experiences from this past Halloween. After posting a silly, yet mildly offensive, comment on Nextdoor.com where I sought advice on how to get rid of little children, I was lambasted with insults from two unstable male Nextdoor.com users. Mark had called me a…

How to be Called a C*NT on Nextdoor.com, Pt. 1: The Background

I feel compelled to share about two subjects that I recently learned were very controversial. These subjects are: (1) children; and (2) Halloween. I know that Halloween is over and that most people have shifted their focus onto Christmas, but my Halloween was so exceptionally absurd and horrifying that it has stuck with me. And,…

Why the Law Should Not Require Us to Help One Another

I went into law for a very specific reason and it wasn’t to be a lawyer. I was drawn to the law because I wanted to learn the framework we humans devised to govern our lives and behaviors. As someone who is constantly seeking to gain a deeper understanding of human nature and the human…

Finding the Beauty in Being Bipolar II

Another tragic and high profile suicide happened today – Chris Cornell, the former Soundgarden front man, strangled himself in his hotel room mere hours after posting on social media. While I cannot pretend to know what led to this suicide, one thing I can predict is the momentary uptick in the national conversation about mental…

Why We Should Stop Trying to Save the Planet

Because yesterday was Earth Day, I feel compelled to write about some of my thoughts on “environmentalism” and what we can do to reverse some of the dangerous and detrimental environmental trends we have been witnessing in recent years (and likely will continue to witness in coming years). I am not going to write some…

The Scariest Decision I’ve Ever Made: Leaving Alcoholics Anonymous

This blog is a collection of the thoughts preoccupying my mind right now. It rambles a little and I want to warn any potential readers in advance. I started this blog in order to live my life more out in the open and with the hope that, by sharing my stories in an unfiltered way,…